. I didn't know how to tell him... and now he hates me..... He is also mad saying I have told my son not to text him back. Does anyone understand why I didn't contact my ex? Or am I an idiot and deserve his anger?. My son has surgery in a few weeks. I didn't think it was ok to need someone who leaves you without a goodbye......just makes him know he will stay gone now.. although he was not his dad. my son cried as much as I did... I wanted to love him enough to let him do what he had to do by leaving.. I'm so not ok. I know this sounds confusing..... I have been trying to do the right thing.. I didn't even know he was texting my son.. When he left. I'm so broken.... He sent me an e-mail that just breaks my heart. Anyway, somehow my ex found out about my son's upcoming surgery. Saying how my not telling him... my son loved him as though he was....The love of my life walked away from me almost a month ago. but I have